What Are You Attracting This Quarter?
"Your focus is a magnet; it pulls toward you the very life you believe you deserve" – GEM Daughters Network.
As we step into Quarter 4, the final chapter of the year, many of us feel the weight of unfinished goals, unmet expectations, or simply the exhaustion of carrying so much from the months behind us. For daddyless daughters, this weight can feel heavier. We’ve had to learn how to navigate life without a father’s steady voice affirming us, guiding us, or reminding us that we are enough.
But here’s the truth we often forget: we are not powerless passengers in our own lives. What we give our energy to, multiplies. What we speak over ourselves, echoes back. What we set as our intention, we attract.
The question, then, is simple but life-changing: What are you attracting this quarter?
The Power of Intention
Intention is more than a positive thought. It’s a posture. It’s a conscious decision to direct your focus, align your energy, and invite specific outcomes into your life. As daddyless daughters, it can be easy to let survival mode write the script of our lives: “I’m just trying to make it.” But intention rewrites that script: “I’m choosing what I want to multiply in my life.” Think of intention as planting seeds. If you want roses, you can’t keep planting weeds. If you want peace, you can’t keep rehearsing chaos. If you want growth, you can’t keep feeding stagnation. So, what are you planting in Q4?
Attracting Through Finances
Let’s start with one of the biggest stressors for many (daddyless) women: finances.
The Survival Script: “I’m always broke. There’s never enough.” This script is rooted in lack, often reinforced by the instability many of us felt growing up. If no one taught us how to manage money—or if money was a source of pain—we may unconsciously attract the same cycles of scarcity.
The Intention Script: “This quarter, I am attracting financial clarity and wise stewardship.” This shift may not suddenly put thousands of dollars in your bank account, but it begins to reshape how you see and handle money. With intention, you might:
Create a simple budget and stick to it.
Automate savings, even if it’s just $10 a week (feel free to use your currency to determine this).
Research a new stream of income or ask for that raise.
Intention in your finances doesn’t just change your money. It changes you. You begin to move from feeling powerless to feeling prepared.
Attracting Through Health
Now let’s take another area where many daughters silently struggle: health.
The Survival Script: “I’ll never be consistent. I’ll always fall off.” This script often comes from years of self-doubt or neglect, believing our bodies aren’t worthy of care.
The Intention Script: “This quarter, I am attracting strength, nourishment, and rest in my body.” Suddenly, you stop obsessing over perfection and start focusing on small, intentional acts of care. With intention, you might:
Drink an extra glass of water each morning.
Commit to 15 minutes of movement each day.
Set a bedtime routine to honor your rest.
Notice: you don’t have to overhaul your entire health plan to start attracting wellness. You just need to set the tone, plant the seed, and water it daily.
Living Attractively, Not Reactively
The danger of moving through life without intention is that you end up living reactively—always responding, always putting out fires, always catching up. Intention shifts you into living attractively—drawing in the very life you desire.
Here’s how you can step into Q4 with intention:
Name It – Write one sentence: “This quarter, I am attracting…” (Fill in the blank with finances, health, peace, or whatever area is calling your attention).
Frame It – Place your intention somewhere visible—on your mirror, your journal, your phone wallpaper.
Claim It – Let your daily actions reflect your words. Remember, intention without action is just a wish.
This last quarter isn’t just about ending strong. It’s about stepping into your power as a woman who knows her focus is a magnet. So, pause. Ask yourself honestly: What am I attracting this quarter? And then dare to set your intention boldly. Because you are worthy of attracting more than survival. You are worthy of abundance, wholeness, and peace.
